This helped a lot, I need to talk to my gf because we don’t spend enough
time together, I’m still in love but I feel like Im falling out of love
slowly, because she doesnt seem to care that much when we spend this much
time apart. I hate it, I hate that she thinks only the weekends are good.
I found it interesting how you ranked the 4 categories. Spouse ahead of
kids? Are you serious? Growing up, my mom always told me that once a woman
has kids, the husband must take a back seat. Given the choice of saving her
kids or her husband if they were all drowning, 99% of women would save
their kids first. Kids represent the future, once a guy spreads his seed,
he in essence becomes a has been. Sorry guys, if you want to be #1 in a
woman’s life; don’t have kids!
@DanaFillmorePsyD There is also a class aspect to your 4 priorities in
marriage. Wealthy couples can and do hire many household tasks done such as
cooking, cleaning, yard work, time with kids, paying bills, etc… Also,
their homes are much larger, with more privacy zones. This lends itself to
more intimacy and more date nights if the couple so chooses. Average folks
are much more tired at the end of the day because their life is so much
harder than are affluent couples. These are facts.
@DrGspicylove121 Haha that’s what I’ve always wondered too… but
differently….more like; “What’s that lazy old fart doing anyway? Can’t
whip up a few miracles anymore? Sheesh.”
Well, I just broke up with my bf.We`ve been together for a year.In the
beginning, we had as much time together as we could but then, when he moved
into his city, we used to see each-other more rarely.twice or three times a
week.However, that doesn`t mean that I stopped loving him or whatever but
he found it extremely suffering and painful to continue like this so he
broke up with me, saying we should go on being friends until we start
living together.Will this work out?Opinions…:(
Im with a man who just cant seem to get off my back with his jealousy, it
onley shows me how insecure he is..while he is the one working at clubs day
in day out, and i dont get to see him that often..i never have issue with
jealousy, cause i woudnt care less if he would cheat..ive already been
cheated once, and im kind of immune to it..as for him..he drives me crazy
and we are engaged, what makes it harder to seperate..but its nt working
and i refuse to get married this way ,any advice please!?!
omg don’t even get me started so my school plays basketball and I’m playing
and my gf is the cheerleader… so after the game I try to put my arm
around her and she’s all like NO DONT TOUCH ME! then she goes to her
friends hugs them and flirts with them then I feel like shit…. I say nice
things and she calls me embarrasing and stupid and an idiot alot… she
said she might want to break up because I’m too emotional when she makes me
feel like a worthless asshole
so I know this guy and he says he likes this other girl but he always hangs
with me and r we friends or love?!?!?!???!???!!!! if u want more details
comment me and ask. but I can’t tell u names or ages.
yeah. me too. i was actualy using that program also because i want to bring
her back but I did! It helped through the most difficult situation. Ive
ever gone through. I really appreciated it. Anyway, u forgot to put the
site name. Its: GettingBackTheEx (d0t) info
dump her! trust me you will be better in the future! just trust me! look
her in the eyes and tell she will never have a happy marriage acting the
way she acts. then tell her she doesn’t deserve you, turn around and never
talk to her again. do this now, today! so your marriage and kids don’t pay
in the future. Good Luck and Be Strong!!!
What i find funny, is that women have the best ideas…and also the most
evil intentions. but then again i no longer really seek it…but here i am
thinking i can come here and be negative.. and…i notice you are
right…perhaps..BAH! maybe im just bitter, or maybe im just a male, and
feel a bit inferior on this subject.. :S hmm..women seem to have the best
ideas…provokes us men properly…and perhaps my bad luck is a factor
My problem? Girlfriend of 2+yrs. Her daughter now 12. the father deceased
few yrs ago.(she wanted a divorse from him being controling, as she told
me). Her daughter was nice and lil” sweety at first,now her pre-teens she
is coping attitude and use it to get mom against me.now I guess I am a mean
guy because we got into mature argument over her lack of money
responsibility.The other issue now is daughter is jealous when we are
together. she thinks I”m taking mom away and gets very nasty rude.cont
and will hit me and try to get me rialed up”.then mom gets mad at me.I
am,and have been very nice to her and would love to have/take care as a
daughter. now she sleeps with mom and when tired etc..will pull mom with
her and away from me.mom is not disiplining her to be respectfull toward
me, and if mom gets nasty to me(for any uncalled for reason)I belive she is
picking up these cue”s and thinks its ok to be nasty to me cuz mom does
nothing.VERY FRUSTRATING!..continued…
Yesterday her daughter was kicking me and slapping me in the face(all the
while she is getting a thrill with her new found power over mom). Mom says
it is just not going to work out because of her daughters feelings about
me, and insist that its not because she is jealous.I think mom may be
cheating and useing as a front to push me out.Mom has the authority but not
doing anything.she doesnt know but its teaching her that its ok to treat
men like this.very sickening!! to the least!!
I have a question, i had an ex before, who was extremely reserve and she
wouldn’t ever show that i was, appreciated, or tell me she loved me… She
prefer to show affection through act’s, and she told me i should know she
loves me. However its my fault too, when i have first told her i loved her,
i had ran away from her because she was always mad at me. I took a very
long time to open up to her completely and gave her my entire heart..
However, she always told me harsh things and it always broke
Hi Dana , Your videos are very helpful with full of inspiring events which
teach on how to deal the situation differently than a person would normally
do .I wanted to share some misunderstanding happening between us and would
like to get your advise on it .WHat’s the best way to contact you .
Hi Ruby, I am sorry to hear that you are having redundant arguments with
your husband. My suggestion is to check out our program on our website
Strong Marriage Now . com. We have a specific program “Effective
Communication for Couples” that is very fitting for your situation. Best of
luck.
You already know that infuriating situation when your close friend (who’s
been a loser for all of eternity, incidentally) gets an unbelievable girl
to fall for him in a couple of weeks? Yep, that materialized. I am aware
that I ought to be happy but I would rather it to be me. He explained he
used the Cupid Love System (Search for it in Google). I want to disappear
inside a cave as we speak.
We have stopped communicating, He has tried to tell me on more than one
occasion, I did not listen and did nothing, now he wants to divorce, we
have spent next to no time together, sex is nil, which is my fault and
there is no infidelity.they say the light bulb theory, when it goes of its
WOW why didn’t I see it, I want to work on how I can change this, and have
him fall in love w/ me again.
Dr. Fillmore,
#1 enemy is selfishness. Selfishness destroys relationship. Life is not
that perfect the way you want. I have been in relationship for 14
1/2 years. We do not have time together since she has a son with
disabilities, but I do not cheat. Also, I want my own kids, but I do not
cheat. You see? Many years ago, people used to tell her that I would leave
her since I am 13 year younger. Sorry for my bad English. I am Georgian;-)
This helped a lot, I need to talk to my gf because we don’t spend enough
time together, I’m still in love but I feel like Im falling out of love
slowly, because she doesnt seem to care that much when we spend this much
time apart. I hate it, I hate that she thinks only the weekends are good.
@lokkkness So glad this helped you! Spending time together makes an
incredible difference in keeping a relationship strong.
I found it interesting how you ranked the 4 categories. Spouse ahead of
kids? Are you serious? Growing up, my mom always told me that once a woman
has kids, the husband must take a back seat. Given the choice of saving her
kids or her husband if they were all drowning, 99% of women would save
their kids first. Kids represent the future, once a guy spreads his seed,
he in essence becomes a has been. Sorry guys, if you want to be #1 in a
woman’s life; don’t have kids!
@DanaFillmorePsyD There is also a class aspect to your 4 priorities in
marriage. Wealthy couples can and do hire many household tasks done such as
cooking, cleaning, yard work, time with kids, paying bills, etc… Also,
their homes are much larger, with more privacy zones. This lends itself to
more intimacy and more date nights if the couple so chooses. Average folks
are much more tired at the end of the day because their life is so much
harder than are affluent couples. These are facts.
Do these priorities apply to a man and woman who are not married and do not
have kids?
@DrGspicylove121 Haha that’s what I’ve always wondered too… but
differently….more like; “What’s that lazy old fart doing anyway? Can’t
whip up a few miracles anymore? Sheesh.”
Well, I just broke up with my bf.We`ve been together for a year.In the
beginning, we had as much time together as we could but then, when he moved
into his city, we used to see each-other more rarely.twice or three times a
week.However, that doesn`t mean that I stopped loving him or whatever but
he found it extremely suffering and painful to continue like this so he
broke up with me, saying we should go on being friends until we start
living together.Will this work out?Opinions…:(
i would pay good money to stick my dick in her mouth
Im with a man who just cant seem to get off my back with his jealousy, it
onley shows me how insecure he is..while he is the one working at clubs day
in day out, and i dont get to see him that often..i never have issue with
jealousy, cause i woudnt care less if he would cheat..ive already been
cheated once, and im kind of immune to it..as for him..he drives me crazy
and we are engaged, what makes it harder to seperate..but its nt working
and i refuse to get married this way ,any advice please!?!
omg don’t even get me started so my school plays basketball and I’m playing
and my gf is the cheerleader… so after the game I try to put my arm
around her and she’s all like NO DONT TOUCH ME! then she goes to her
friends hugs them and flirts with them then I feel like shit…. I say nice
things and she calls me embarrasing and stupid and an idiot alot… she
said she might want to break up because I’m too emotional when she makes me
feel like a worthless asshole
Inbox me plz if you are willing to give me advice ON MT BOY DILEMMA! !! OR
if u need help I can help!!!
so I know this guy and he says he likes this other girl but he always hangs
with me and r we friends or love?!?!?!???!???!!!! if u want more details
comment me and ask. but I can’t tell u names or ages.
yeah. me too. i was actualy using that program also because i want to bring
her back but I did! It helped through the most difficult situation. Ive
ever gone through. I really appreciated it. Anyway, u forgot to put the
site name. Its: GettingBackTheEx (d0t) info
dump her! trust me you will be better in the future! just trust me! look
her in the eyes and tell she will never have a happy marriage acting the
way she acts. then tell her she doesn’t deserve you, turn around and never
talk to her again. do this now, today! so your marriage and kids don’t pay
in the future. Good Luck and Be Strong!!!
What i find funny, is that women have the best ideas…and also the most
evil intentions. but then again i no longer really seek it…but here i am
thinking i can come here and be negative.. and…i notice you are
right…perhaps..BAH! maybe im just bitter, or maybe im just a male, and
feel a bit inferior on this subject.. :S hmm..women seem to have the best
ideas…provokes us men properly…and perhaps my bad luck is a factor
My problem? Girlfriend of 2+yrs. Her daughter now 12. the father deceased
few yrs ago.(she wanted a divorse from him being controling, as she told
me). Her daughter was nice and lil” sweety at first,now her pre-teens she
is coping attitude and use it to get mom against me.now I guess I am a mean
guy because we got into mature argument over her lack of money
responsibility.The other issue now is daughter is jealous when we are
together. she thinks I”m taking mom away and gets very nasty rude.cont
and will hit me and try to get me rialed up”.then mom gets mad at me.I
am,and have been very nice to her and would love to have/take care as a
daughter. now she sleeps with mom and when tired etc..will pull mom with
her and away from me.mom is not disiplining her to be respectfull toward
me, and if mom gets nasty to me(for any uncalled for reason)I belive she is
picking up these cue”s and thinks its ok to be nasty to me cuz mom does
nothing.VERY FRUSTRATING!..continued…
Yesterday her daughter was kicking me and slapping me in the face(all the
while she is getting a thrill with her new found power over mom). Mom says
it is just not going to work out because of her daughters feelings about
me, and insist that its not because she is jealous.I think mom may be
cheating and useing as a front to push me out.Mom has the authority but not
doing anything.she doesnt know but its teaching her that its ok to treat
men like this.very sickening!! to the least!!
I have a question, i had an ex before, who was extremely reserve and she
wouldn’t ever show that i was, appreciated, or tell me she loved me… She
prefer to show affection through act’s, and she told me i should know she
loves me. However its my fault too, when i have first told her i loved her,
i had ran away from her because she was always mad at me. I took a very
long time to open up to her completely and gave her my entire heart..
However, she always told me harsh things and it always broke
Hi Dana , Your videos are very helpful with full of inspiring events which
teach on how to deal the situation differently than a person would normally
do .I wanted to share some misunderstanding happening between us and would
like to get your advise on it .WHat’s the best way to contact you .
Hi Ruby, I am sorry to hear that you are having redundant arguments with
your husband. My suggestion is to check out our program on our website
Strong Marriage Now . com. We have a specific program “Effective
Communication for Couples” that is very fitting for your situation. Best of
luck.
Hey Dana, I need your advice regarding some problem… Would you please try
and contact me?
You already know that infuriating situation when your close friend (who’s
been a loser for all of eternity, incidentally) gets an unbelievable girl
to fall for him in a couple of weeks? Yep, that materialized. I am aware
that I ought to be happy but I would rather it to be me. He explained he
used the Cupid Love System (Search for it in Google). I want to disappear
inside a cave as we speak.
We have stopped communicating, He has tried to tell me on more than one
occasion, I did not listen and did nothing, now he wants to divorce, we
have spent next to no time together, sex is nil, which is my fault and
there is no infidelity.they say the light bulb theory, when it goes of its
WOW why didn’t I see it, I want to work on how I can change this, and have
him fall in love w/ me again.
Dr. Fillmore,
#1 enemy is selfishness. Selfishness destroys relationship. Life is not
that perfect the way you want. I have been in relationship for 14
1/2 years. We do not have time together since she has a son with
disabilities, but I do not cheat. Also, I want my own kids, but I do not
cheat. You see? Many years ago, people used to tell her that I would leave
her since I am 13 year younger. Sorry for my bad English. I am Georgian;-)